Five Things to Avoid When Dating an Eastern European Bride
This article will be useful for those men who are going to find a Russian girl. Here are 5 most popular errors westerners make with Russian Dating. The most important in the first tip; others are of about the same value.
1. Transferring her dollars. Don't give your money to somebody who you met on Internet site. You should understand that a true-hearted girl would not ask; she has too much self-respect. Furthermore, she has managed to live for more than twenty years without your “help”. Why does she ask for your money now? Any Russian girl who asks you for currency is only trying to deceive you. An Eastern European lady does not even consider you two to be in a serious relationship until you have seen one another in real life! Would you give money to a girl from your country that you had just met? Think about it. It is simply not reasonable and may bring you trouble (and makes the women consider it is easy and encourages more of the similar behavior).
2. Not questioning. You are searching for a help mate, not a woman to only spend the time. Ukrainian girls are serious (for the most part) and they deserve the same respect. And one more thing, if you do not ask her questions to learn more about her, her goals etc… she will sooner or later figure out that you are not serious. Then she will dump you, or just see what she can get out of you! If you are really searching for a wife, you should be asking her all kinds of questions! Not only ask a lot of questions, but ask them several times in different ways, just to make sure if you get similar answers (a good way to protect yourself from a scam).
3. Sending her the photos she doesn't need. Do not send her photos of your car or other welfare measure. Otherwise, you will attract the wrong type of girl. An honest former Soviet Union girl is more concerned about your soul than she is about your possessions. If you focus on your things, she can decide you are superficial and not serious man. Focusing on your money only will work on american women, the most superficial and windy girls in the world! This is not America, there is no need to impress these women with attainments! Show them your sensitive side, your preferences, what you think and feel and you'll get a thankful life partner.
4. Not being prepared seriously for a trip. Do you know that in order to bring her to your country as your bride, you must go to her country first? Yes, it is the only way she will be able to get a visa to come to the USA. A former Soviet Union woman, if she is serious, will want to meet you. You have to be prepared to travel to her country at some point in the future. A woman will usually give you about half a year to tell her you will come. Then some more months get ready. If you make her wait longer period she will think you are a shallow and write to someone she would think is more serious! So be prepared emotionally and monetarily.
5. Not having an emergency plan. This is a huge mistake! If you eventually go to Russia or Ukraine, you can't know what will happen. Be prepared to get a few unexpected experiences! No matter how many letters you have written to your lady or how many phone calls you have made, once you see her in reality, everything will be different. Maybe you both look at one another and understand it will not work. Your backup plan will protect you if it happens. And do not go to meet just one lady (unless you have already met). Meet two or three. Also try to have good relations with at least one of the local agencies in the city you will be visiting. Know their contact information. Later, if things don't work out, you will be able to call the other agency and meet other girls.
Well, that's it. Remember about these advices as you look for russian single women and good luck!
January 29 2010 09:54 am | Relationships & Dating